Future Together Questions

Where do you actually see this going? Couples put off that question for years, then find out mid-argument that they had completely different plans. Better to compare notes over coffee than during a crisis.

1. 1What does our life look like in five years, in your head?
2. 2Is there a dream you're scared to bring up because it might change our plans?
3. 3What does 'home' mean to you long-term: a place, a feeling, a person?
4. 4How do you picture us handling a major life change together?
5. 5What's a compromise you're not willing to make, even for us?
6. 6What would you want our relationship to be known for, years from now?
7. 7Is there something you want to build together that we haven't started yet?
8. 8What does support look like from me, during your hardest future moment?